Marva Shorey Allison 

(Oct. 7, 1946 - Jan. 30, 2025)

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Marva moved to Powell, Wyoming, from Casper, Wyoming, after marrying James S. Allison. They had one biological son, Derek James Allison, and one son adopted from South Korea, Scott William Allison. Marva was also blessed with a granddaughter, Raelynn Aurora Allison who just turned 9 years old. 

Marva was first and foremost a mother to her sons. She actively participated in their academic activities and programs, volunteering in their schools and classrooms. She was also an incredibly hard and humble worker who would have sacrificed the shirt off her back to a total stranger if they needed it. The community grew to know her, especially the regulars who came through the drive thru at McDonald's. She was more than likely the first friendly face you would encounter before receiving your order.

Marva had a heart for service and continued this past retirement volunteering at HeadStart as a foster grandparent. She loved teaching and helping every child she interacted with on a daily basis. She once said that HeadStart gave her life purpose and a reason to get out of bed in the morning. That's just the kind of woman she was. 

Marva can also be described as a realist, wanting to teach her sons the realities of the world they will inhabit and eventually contribute to. She was a very intellectual individual with a degree in elementary education. She was extremely passionate about animals and adored every one of her pets throughout the years, building an everlasting bond that transcends the rainbow bridge they cross.

Marva had an infectious and contagious smile that would brighten any room or mood. She loved watching her favorite talk shows, Oprah Winfrey and Dr. Phil. When the stations stopped airing the episodes she tried and failed learning how to stream them on Wi-Fi. She was an old soul, a baby boomer, one who cherished the simplicity of the past, with no reason to keep up with the rapid evolution of the world's advances. In short, she was technologically illiterate. She would prefer snail mail over Gmail, land lines over smartphones, and a face-to-face interaction over FaceTime any day. 

Our mother didn't always have an easy life, but the one thing she demonstrated through her living actions was that it doesn't matter what the starting line looks like, as long as you're progressively writing new chapters in your book of life. The exact time and moment of someone's passing will always be unknown to us, and in the grand scheme of it all we get to choose what we remember about that person. She always wanted to be remembered as “a tough ole bird” like her grandmother. 

Our mother wasn't perfect by any means, but she showed us that imperfection was still worthy of meaning. She had a uniqueness and perspective on life that appreciated the subtle blessings most would ignore. And lastly, she was a woman of love, she loved unconditionally, with the entirety of her heart. She was a God-fearing woman, who relied heavily on her faith in times of trials and uncertainty. We honor and celebrate the life of our mother Marva Allison.

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gronberg

Marva was my dads, Bill Gronberg's, little sister. I and my three sisters were her flowergirls at her wedding in Casper, Wyoming. My family visited her family in Powell when we were growing up. I continued visiting as an adult with my parents. I loved her and will miss her. My father and I were at her deathbed. Thank you to all the hospice workers at Big Horn Rehabilition and the friends of her sons who sat with her, also. I am glad she is reunited with her Gronberg and Shorey relatives and all her beloved pets.

Wednesday, February 12
gronberg

Marva is also survived by an older sister, Mrs. Carol Gronberg Horneman of Sun City, Arizona.

An older brother, William (Bill) Gronberg of Payson, Utah

Marva also has cousins in Alaska, Arizona, California and Virginia.

She is Aunt Marva to many nieces and nephews.

Marva's father, Marvin V. Gronberg (1906-1959)

Marva's mother, Lois Alma Shorey Gronberg (1911-1978)

Marva's first 11 years were in Rosemead, California. She attended Marshall Elementary School, now Mildred B. Janson Elementary School.

Then 3 years in New York City where she attended Episcopal Church Schools.

Then back to California for one year at Rosemead High School.

Marva graduated from Natrona County High School in Casper, Wyoming

Marva also graduated from Chadron State College in Chadron, Nebraska.

Marva always stood for the highest of ethical standards. She gave much and received less than much.

Thursday, February 13